Monday, October 10, 2011

Busy Beeeeeee

Yo, pussycats!

I have shows almost every night this week, so you have ample opportunity to check me out all over NYC. Goodness gracious I'm tired just thinking about it. Should be a jazzy week, though.

Then next Sunday (10/16) is the lady comedian cocktail party that I organized. I mean to host these every few months, but 2011 kinda got away from me. But we're back in action! So if you're a comedy lady in NYC, come out to the Creek (7 train one stop out) in Long Island City for some Tecate and chit-chat at 5pm on Sunday. Should be rad.

Monday, September 26, 2011

Modern Love

The Style section is my favorite section of the New York Times. I've read the Modern Love column for a few years now and this week's column is the best I have seen in a while. Read it here.

Monday, September 19, 2011

Wow thanks

Since I shared the big news about my book deal, I have received so many wonderful congratulation texts, emails, Facebook posts, tweets, and more. It's really amazing to be surrounded by so many wonderful, supportive, positive people. Man oh man.

So many of the congratulations came from my fellow comedians, and it really speaks to how amazing that community can be. People often assume that the comedy scene in New York City must be cutthroat and hostile, but I've found it to be the opposite, for the most part. I've met so many amazing people here, and when new and exciting opportunities come up for peers (be it going to the Montreal Comedy Fest or doing a set on Fallon or getting a great new job), the majority of the community is genuinely thrilled for the person.

This weekend I caught up with two old friends a bit, Pete Schultz and Brandon Bassham. I met those guys in a sketch writing class at the Upright Citizens Brigade, when I first arrived in New York City, 5 years ago. Our sketch class had a few shows at UCB, and then ran a free show (called Black Habanero) in the basement of the Two Boots Pizzeria, where it was BYOB and audiences would watch sketch, standup, and improv. Brandon's teaching sketch for UCB now and running their fantastic new theater space in the East Village. Pete was just hired to write for Saturday Night Live, doing Weekend Update stories full-time. All of this recent excitement reminds me of a wonderful interview between Sean McCarthy (of The Comic's Comic) and legendary storyteller Tom Shillue.


What tip would you give to any comedian who moves here? Comedy is a community. Other comics are your resource. Comics who are on your level -- that's important. A lot of comics are restless -- they want to network with the pros who they perceive as 'one level up' from them. Those guys can't help you much. It's your peers that will help you. Forget the dog-eat-dog stuff; like it's just you and your jokes against the world. That used to work, but not anymore. Make friends with people who make you laugh, produce shows together, build an audience together. Don't worry about trying to climb your way up the comedy scene, just hold hands with your friends and you'll all rise up like a balloon, laughing along the way.

Friday, September 16, 2011

Book Deal!

Hello, friends!

This week my book deal was announced on Publishers Marketplace! The posting can only be seen if you have an account with the website, so I'm pasting the announcement here, with a tiny screen shot below, too.

I'm absolutely thrilled and so thankful to my brilliant literary agent, Elizabeth Evans, and the wonderful Stephanie Meyers at Harper Collins. "The New Rules for Blondes" will be published in fall 2012 by It books, which is an imprint of Harper Collins on which Steven Adler published HIS memoir. Could it be more perfect?



September 14, 2011



Non-fiction:
Humor

NYC-based Comedian Selena Coppock's debut THE NEW RULES FOR BLONDES, a collection of essays celebrating and subverting the blonde stereotype, to Stephanie Meyers at It Books, for publication in fall 2012, by Elizabeth Evans at Jean V. Naggar Literary Agency (World English).

And here's the screen shot (taken by my buddy Heather Brady):

Wednesday, August 31, 2011

NY Times article

Just read an interesting article on NYTimes.com. It's called Are You as Fertile As You Look?

Interesting piece about how in American culture, so many women work so hard to preserve their youth (looks-wise), but are forgetting that the biological clock keeps on ticking, even if you have great abs and full hair at 40.

Baby and fertility stuff is such a minefield and can make so many conversations unintentionally uncomfortable. I have friends who have dealt with infertility and difficulty on that front, and it's heartbreaking. You just want your loved ones to have whatever they want out of this life, and to not be grilled about it by strangers or clueless relatives.

I've found that most people simply assume that every young woman wants to get married and have babies. If your life plan differs from that two-step at all, brace yourself for dirty looks and comments like, "Who doesn't like BABIES?" (And assumptions that you must be a selfish and terrible person who pretends to be friendly, but actually burns onesies by moonlight.)

On stage, I sometimes joke that I've always never wanted children, but it's true. I've never imagined having kids. I've never had an impulse or instinct to be a caretaker to babies. I babysat a bit in high school and was a camp counselor one summer, but never really loved either job. Raising babies isn't everyone's cup of tea, and I wish that more people (usually strangers) would be a bit more mindful of that. Why is it that everyone can understand that, for example, some people like the music of Motley Crue, and others don't. Others HATE that music, in fact. Why not the same with kids?

I want what I want out of MY life and you want what you want out of YOUR life, and those things might be completely opposite, and that's OK. As my lovely co-worker Calvin says (in a hilarious voice, while he does the 'ole weave pat), "Do you."


Thursday, August 25, 2011

Watch this video

My sister just filmed this hilarious video. She's the sign language lady.


Thursday, August 11, 2011

Awesome upcoming show


I can't wait for this show. It's going to be a smoky eye/red lip kind of night. Make-up talk!